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Big Emotions After School: Why Kids Melt Down at Home and How Parents Can Help
A child experiencing a meltdown, expressing frustration and emotion against a red backdrop. They were fine at school, and now they are home crying over the smallest inconvenience, yelling that you got their snack wrong, and refusing to do homework. You're asking yourself, " what am I doing wrong ?" But it's actually about what you are doing RIGHT. Kids breakdown and show us their most raw emotions when they feel safe. Well now you might be thinking, "great! I'm doing this par

Erica Cornelius
7 min read


How EMDR Helps Kids Heal from Medical Trauma
A explanation of how EMDR can help a child heal from medical trauma.

Erica Cornelius
4 min read


Test Anxiety, Perfectionism, and the Push to Achieve: A Therapist’s Take
A focused teenager diligently writes during a test in a school classroom. If you’re parenting a teen in Northern Virginia or DC, you’ve probably noticed the intense pressure students face. From AP classes and sports to college prep and extracurriculars, the drive to achieve is everywhere. For many teens, this pressure turns into anxiety or even perfectionism that makes school feel overwhelming. Let’s unpack what’s really going on, how you can support your child, and when it m

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


EMDR in VA and DC: What Parents & Teens Should Know
Woman touching and tapping her shoulders in blurred background. The letters EMDR are shown on gray stone blocks. If you’re a parent of a teen or young adult who’s struggling with anxiety, trauma, or even just constant school stress, you might be hearing about something called EMDR therapy and wondering, is this legit? Could it actually help? Short answer: Yes. Longer answer: Let me walk you through what it is, how it works, and why more young people (and their families) are t

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Helping Your Child With ADHD: First Steps for Parents
Child hugging an adult with backpacks, set against a bright, sunny sky. The child wears a striped shirt and blue backpack, appearing content. You're Not Alone Another call from your child’s teacher. Another tough day. Your little one can’t seem to sit still, focus, or keep it together. You’re wondering, “Is this just how they are or could it be ADHD?” Or maybe you already suspect it, but don’t know what to do next. This isn’t a fix it all guide, but it can help you take the n

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Understanding ADHD in Adults: Symptoms, Challenges, and Coping Strategies
If you're an adult with ADHD, you probably know what it's like to live with a brain that feels like a browser with too many tabs...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


OCD vs. Generalized Anxiety: Understanding the Key Differences
Young girl sits introspectively on a couch, quietly battling feelings of anxiety in a peaceful, sunlit room. Anxiety is something most...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Why Children with ADHD Need More Play
Over recent years, ADHD diagnoses have been on the rise. It could be the result of more awareness or more children developing symptoms...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


How Trauma Affects the Brain
Trauma is the result of a deeply disturbing or distressing event, often associated with violence, accidents, abuse, or natural disasters....

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Exploring the Link Between Emotional Mistreatment in Childhood and Social Anxiety in Adulthood
The beauty of being an adult is you get to be whoever you want to be. However, there are some strings attached from childhood. Every...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


How to Support Transgender Youth in Your Life
If you have a youth in your life who has come out as transgender, you may be feeling mixed emotions, including confusion about the...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Signs of Attachment Trauma & How to Heal
Childhood years are filled with formative moments and influential relationship dynamics. In a perfect world, each child experiences an environment that nurtures development, provides security, and establishes a sense of safety. Basic needs that are met lay the groundwork for well-defined social skills and confidence building. When that ideal scenario doesn’t come to fruition, as is the case with some children, it can create future problems. Neglectful or abusive caregivers c

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Understanding the Teenage Brain: What Makes it Different?
It’s no surprise that teens function a bit differently compared to adults. They pursue other hobbies and hold different priorities. Your...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Am I a Highly Sensitive Person or Is It Just Anxiety?
In today’s fast-paced world, some people grapple with sensory and emotional experiences that can be confusing or overwhelming. For those...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


How to Allow Yourself to be Intimate With Your Partner
We live in the age of over-sharing, social media, and ever-changing preferences. You may see others around you, whether in real life or...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


How Playtime Can Ease Children’s Anxieties
As a parent or caregiver, it can be difficult to see your child dealing with anxiety. Unfortunately, it happens far too often. Kids can...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Learning How to Listen Before Problem-Solving
Challenges are a natural part of life, whether in school, the workplace, among friends, or within a relationship. How we navigate those...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Parenting a Child with Trichotillomania
Not only does the word “trichotillomania” look scary, but it can also be daunting to pronounce. Even if this is a new term, most people...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


How to Communicate with an Emotionally Distant Partner Without Blaming Them
When your partner is emotionally distant, having routine deep conversations can be difficult. You may find yourself wanting to talk about...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read


Teen Moods: How to Handle the Ups & Downs
The teen years can be tough because teens face challenges physically, socially, and emotionally. Hormonal shifts occur while they’re...

Erica Cornelius
3 min read
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